Episode 2 | Newborn Crying, is it Normal?

Podcast Show Notes: Episode 2 | Newborn Crying, Is It Normal?

In today’s episode, we’re tackling a topic close to every parent’s heart—newborn crying. It’s important to understand that newborn crying is not only normal but expected. Did you know that healthy infants cry more each day, averaging two to three hours by 6-8 weeks old, often peaking in the evening when parents are tired?

Before becoming a midwife, I received valuable advice from a friend: babies cry, and it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re doing anything wrong. Despite well-meaning advice that isn’t often helpful, you will learn to recognise your baby’s cries, early weeks often involve a lot of inconsolable crying, and soothing strategies may vary day to day.

Experts haven’t pinpointed why babies cry so much, but it’s considered a normal part of development, reassuring parents that their baby is following a typical pattern. Understanding this can make coping easier for parents.

Most parents find greater enjoyment in parenting as they learn to decipher their baby’s cries, which become more distinct around three months of age. If you’re concerned, it’s always wise to consult your doctor for a thorough check-up to rule out any medical issues.

Possible reasons for crying:

1. Hunger
   Offer another feed
   2. Wants to suck
   If fed recently offer a dummy or babies own fingers
   3. Needs comfort and closeness from parent
   Pick up baby and cuddle, try patting, rocking, shushing noises
   4. Uncomfortable
   Too hot or cold, change position, clothing
   5. Tired or overtired
   Try to get to sleep, may need rocking/feeding to assist
   6. Dirty nappy or nappy rash
   Check nappy, change and apply a nappy barrier cream
   7. Wind or digestive pain or discomfort in the tummy
   Try gentle tummy massage, cycle legs, cuddle as your warm body acts as a heat pack to baby’s tummy
   8. Needs to burp
   Lift into upright position over shoulder or sitting up on your lap, gently pat and rub back.
   9. Overstimulated by visitors, TV, loud noises
   Reduce stimulation, dim lighting, quiet spaces, TV off.
   10. Teething
   Gently rub gums, check for inflamed area.
   11. Illness, fever or feeling miserable
   See GP or Emergency Department if serious.

One effective strategy for overwhelmed parents is to take a “time out” when feeling frustrated. This not only benefits you but also ensures your baby’s safety. It’s essential to recognize when you need a break and step away briefly.

Place your baby in a safe environment like their cot and take deep breaths. Remember, this isn’t neglectful; it’s about ensuring you’re in the right mindset to care for your baby. Although your baby may still cry when you return, you’ll be better equipped to handle it. It’s crucial to seek help when needed and remember that struggling as a new parent is normal and not your fault.

Head to my blog post for more information, How to soothe your crying baby.

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